Sometimes, it's kind of weird that y man will blame others when their life is down in dumps and forget to thank the pple when he is in his peak...isnt it well...weird? Actually, everything that happens in life is for a reason, regardless of good or bad...even if u r now feeling down in the dumps, dun start blaming pple or what...coz everything happens for a reason..from ur perspective, it may be a bad thing that had happened to u..but trust god, coz god always have a way wif planning ur life. Just like me..that veri day which i have decided to leave my previous church, i prayed to god, telling him that all my difficulties...n that veri day..within 3 hours, i meet esther...who was from HOpe Church Singapore..which is the church that i m attending now...the point that i m trying to bring across is that...trust in the lord..perhaps u are not a christian yet..but even so, when u r feeling down, pls dun give up on urself...=D...n when things are going well for u..do remember to thank that someone who contributed to ur sucess...=D