>Love is like 2 people filling up a piece of paper... > > > > A relationship starts off as a clear piece of paper. A guy and a gal > > agrees to write on that piece of paper. When it starts, both r excited as > > it's their first time working together. > > > > They fill up the paper with the best of things they can think of. > > Sometimes the guy writes more, sometimes the gal writes more. Some people > > writes without thinking much, some writes after some thought. > > > > As the writing carries on, it gets more and more tiring. The couple >have > > to be motivated to keep on writing. This is the commitment and > > responsibility of a relationship. As long as the urge to write continues, > > the writing will never end. It will carry on paper after paper until one > > pen's ink run out. This is eternal love till death do us apart... > > > > Some couples prefer to write together, some write their own and >combine > > the efforts. Neither side should be the only one writing, else ink may get > > blocked for the party who writes non-stop. Too tired... > > > > The character of a person is like the handwriting on the paper... > > Everyone has his/her handwriting. It is very difficult to change one's > > handwriting. Not impossible but it takes a lot of time and hard work. > > > > The outcome may not be desirable. It is also difficult to imitate the > > handwritings of another person. The most one can do is to be tidier or >more > > untidy in their handwritings. Sometimes, to make the writing on the paper > > look more presentable, it could be necessary for either side to slightly > > alter the style of his/her handwritings... > > > > A mistake in love is like a smudge on the paper... Whether purposely >or > > accidentally a smudge is a smudge. No matter how well the writing has >gone. > > > > So far or how lovely is the content, a smudge will leave a mark no > > matter how well u cover it (eraser, liquid paper, etc.). Whether to keep >on > > writing will depend on the perception of the couple. Whether they mind the > > content more or the outlook of the piece of work more. Worst case is when > > the paper is torn. It'll leave a very ugly mark. Well, the decision lies > > with the couple... > > > > To break-off is to stop writing... Many reasons can lead to this >ending. > > One party could be the one writing non-stop and really too tired to carry >on > > anymore. One party or both could be unsatisfied with the content or really > > dislike what each other is writing (it takes time to know the writing >style > > of someone, it could be halfway through the paper before it is known). Or >a > > smudge exists and either one or both mind (depend on their level of > > perfectionism). Or it could be what they r writing r contradicting each > > other. It can also be the case where one party finds another partner to > > write with... > > > > Other analogies... Pen users r serious lovers. Those who use pencils > > like to test things out first. Some even write drafts with other people > > (many-timers). After a breakup, a photocopy of the writings so far is made > > and this is given to a party while the other keeps the original (for > > memories). Or it could be either or neither will keep the writings. It >could > > also be the original work lies there waiting for the original writers to >be > > back. A well-done masterpiece could be bound into a book and kept forever. > > Likewise in some cases, it may be pieces of paper lying around. > > > > Different people writes different things and have different outcomes. >In > > the case of people going through many relationships, it's just like >changing > > partners to work with. > > > > Some may write things according to past experiences or have new ideas. > > While writing, the couple may exchange their pens. In a new relationship, > > one party might mind that his/her partner's pen has been used by other > > people before. Personally I believe this also applies to friendship right? > > It also requires both parties to play their part to keep the friendship > > forever lasting. > > > > You only live once. What do you really want to do and achieve in life? > > Let's think, learn & share. It is a meaningful journey.

Haha..by demand of weiling...i decided to update my blog..haha...actually not bcoz i was busy wif studies..but rather, i was slacking my life... Actually wanted to study thru the day today de..haha...but i should have known that it wont be possible...coz i m a SLACKER!!! haha...had a heavy lunch and started wif my maths at 2 plus today, after watching meteor garden today..then at 4 plus,i decided to online for a while...but tried for ard 40 mins but to no avail...later on i called weiling and she told me that msn under maintainance...haha..wasted my 40 mins... Then after putting down the fone, i went back to studying...then at 5 plus, i saw a missed call from sam..then called him back...n chatted for ard 2 hrs...sobz...regretted liao...haha...2 hrs could realli study alot loh..haha..but nvm lah..haha.. Perhaps i was oso a bit excited today bah..coz next week this time, exams will be over and i will be ready to go hong kong..haha..but i tink i better calm myself down..haha..erm...i tink i m gonna stop here..haha..cya...those out there who are slacking as much...WAKE UP!!! haha...god bless...=p

I wonder what's wrong wif me...haha...just finished one paper and i m already preparing myself for the holidays..haha..yesterday after coming back hm from sch...went online...then chatted a bit...then played online pool wif weiling and victoria..haha..told u guys le...i dunno how to play pool de..haha...then after that, i intended to take a nap..but to no avail....coz not used to taking nap..then cant seem to fall asleep. In the end, i ended up practising dizi at hm...haha..actually at 5 plus i wanted to go n buy that co buy long sleeve shirt de..but i too lazy to go too far..so in the end i didnt...I told myself that i will start revision after dinner at 6 plus...but who noes...sam called...then in the end, we went to park to walk walk loh...haha..i didnt noe till ytd that bt panjang got so mani park and so big summore..haha..i got see squirrel and monkeys ytd....so cute~haha...but it was a long walk though...from 6 plus walked till around 8 then i reached hm...haha...die le lah...i m realli in slacking mood...haha.. Today is another of those rainy days...dun tink i m in the mood to go out..perhaps i will just stay at hm and do some revision bah...haha...=p

At lst i entered poly coz i thought poly exams veri slack de...n for some courses they wont even have exam...that was what i heard...but guess what??? I was wrong....!!! Haha...optometry got exam de loh...and somemore need to study..haha..i have got some friends who are enjoying their holidays liao..and here i m...breaking my head...haha...but anyway...today was my lst paper...chemistry..sth that i m not realli good at...haha...but luckily that paper was quite easy...hope that i wont make any careless mistakes..haha.. Haiz...after exam still got co stuff to stress leh...i tink i realli misplaced that list of pple who are going for the music camp le...i have turned my room upside down liao..but still cannot find it leh..how? Haha...then for the hk trip...havent practised yet..hehe...go there n throw face le....haha.. Erm..i tink i wont blog so long for today bah...coz quite tired le...btw...my dear ai tus... all the best for ur olevels...must work hard worz...haha..take care..!!!

I opened my email tis morning and received this mail from samuel...it was such a touching story but my email account cant seem to forward it...so i decided to post it in my blog.... A LUV STORY U WILL NEVER FORGET He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home.. suddenly he asked the waiter: would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously: why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea , just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I h! ave the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home.. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the pr! ince, then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have romised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I ! never feel sorry for anything I do for you.Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied. love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive not 2 c but understand not 2 hear but 2 listen not 2 let go but HOLD ON !!!!

Weiling sent this to me this morning while i was online...so i decided to share it wif u guys... Message: the greatest irony of love is letting go when u need to hold on...... When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejections; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were the things which helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.

haha...recently more busy mah...preoccupied wif sch work and other stuffs...but i will blog de lah...but these few days oso a bit deprived of slp...haha...btw u guys horz...all so horny ar? Keep toking about contrapceptives and condoms in my tagboard...later pple think i m pervert....n if u guys are asking about how i m going on wif samuel...hehe...u go n ask him loh...haha.. Erm...firstly...want to wish stella happy belated bdae!!!! Haha...libra rulez...(oops...) Haha...in a veri good mood today...though i dun tink i will do well for my gen op quiz today..haha.. Do u guys mind if i end here? Coz i havent bathe from 8 plus in the morning till now...was out all day...i stinks man....haha..so i go le horz...dun say i nv blog loh...haha..nitez....=p

Actually i thought this was going to be the worst bdae ever....coz yesterday my hp sim card kena rejected(weiling...huiyun...dun feel so guilty le lah..part of it was oso my fault) then i couldnt use my hp last nite..haha..i cant believe that i survived one nite without my hp..haha..what an achievement... But luckily i managed to get a new sim card by this afternoon..haha....in the morning, i had to go to sch for some prac for gen op..mummee and weiling bought a small piece of cake for me..haha...then after that i met huiting and frens at lot 1...then went down to town...haha...took neoprint wif my ai tu...then told me to act cute..so pai seh... After that...intended to have dinner wif samuel..then the thing was celia they all wanted to see how samuel looked like...then waited for me and we ate dinner together...with celia they all sitting beside us...then after dinner we went esplanade...but the library not open liao...hence we just walked...then went home loh..but i realli enjoyed my bdae today...thx guys...for making this day memorable for me...nitez!!!!

Hehe...i deleted away another entry...u noe something? Sometimes i m realli cautious about what i write in my blog...haha...dun worry lah..i still want my blog de..at most this is the last time that i will delete away any entries loh...haha..and dun keep calling me mrs sam leh..i dun feel comfortable... hehe...two more days to my bdae!!! At last, my bdae is on sat...haha..can go out wif frens le...haha...wonder where should i go this yr? But sat morning still need to go back to sch...then i tink afternoon going out with my ai tu they all...hehe... Actually quite looking forward to the hk trip...but then a bit stressed oso..coz havent practised those songs yet..hehe I tink i better dun blog too long...later no time to study le..haha..gtg..may god bless u!!!